If you are looking for fellow gamers in OK:
http://okgamers.com/groups/There are also 3 or 4 private or semi-private gaming groups; just depends on what you focus on, etc. Next tournament would be a great time to network, and get involved.
World Of Fighters isn't on that list due to their FB status, but they are fairly open and meet fairly regularly in Tulsa and organize via that group linked.
Between posting in the OK FGC group, and World Of should get things going!
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