I think games are good they help with your reflexes and your mind as well. Also you can get a good work out too since dance central came out and I played plenty of DDR, PUMP & ITG, stuffs fun.
I do understand the way guys ignore us for games since i'm a gamer I kind of understand, but as a woman it still annoys the ♥♥♥♥♥ out of me when we want attention and don't get it. I switched it before though so he could see how I felt, I made my guy wait for me while I did an hour and a half long instance on WoW, ;o.